Staking a Claim to the Future: Lessons from our Next Generation

"If you don't take control of your life, don't complain when others do."  -Bethe Mende Conny

A few weeks ago I had the distinct pleasure of introducing coaching to a group of students at Thomas Edison High School of Technology.  The students I spoke with were enrolled in the Medical Careers course, an academically challenging, one-year program that combines science with technology. The learning environment includes a classroom, a computer research lab, and a clinical laboratory with patient care equipment, EKG monitors, electronic vital signs equipment, specialized training mannequins and advanced emergency medical equipment.   The program prepares students to succeed in challenging medical professions and to make informed career decisions.

The group of students was impressive.  They were bright, insightful and forward-thinking.  They asked excellent questions.  They were very passionate about contributing to the future of health care.  To my utter delight, I was greeted by an effusion of interest around coaching and a lot of curiosity about ways to communicate better with patients.   I was definitely in my element!  What really inspired me about this group was the name tag each student proudly flaunted on their desk.  Included with their names were their future titles of Nurse, Doctor, Pharmacist, Pediatrician, Neurosurgeon, and Dentist.  By using these name tags, these students, intentionally, and deliberately, staked their claim to the future.  For them, being in class that day was just preparation for what was to come.

Their focus makes us question whether or not we have really and truly staked our claim to our future. Are we very clear about where we are going?   When we fail to choose a vision for our lives, every moment of every day chooses for us. 

What is it you really want?  What is most important to you?  What is one step you can take today to fully step into the life you want?